Today I feel like writing about this topic b/c in the past weeks people I know have been dealing with breakups permanently. True love where is it? some might asked.. It's there believe me but b/c of circumstances and issues you and your mate may have gone through or going through we miss out on it.. it is so rare when you find it. Some might sense it instantly while others it takes yrs for them 2 realize that the special person was there right along but took him or her for granted. You realize this ladies and gentlemen when you have lost that person 4 good and it's too late for you 2 get them back. Maybe your the female whose been waiting for months, days or weeks or even yrs for that guy to change on his own and you have loved him unconditionally despite his ignorant ways, despite his coldness.. whateva the situation maybe. The same goes for the males b/c I know their are some brothers out there who have had their share of pain.. What do you? How do you let go of that true love? How do you stop loving someone you believe in your entire heart,soul and being that you and him/her are meant to be despite the odds that are against you? I don't have the answer to this question but one principle I live by is let go and Let God! b/c you can't change them, you can't make them love you no matter what you do you can't do it not on your own will.. sometimes we go through things and we questioned why? let it go and let God! don't try to understand it! it's beyond our human comprehension... I'm realizing this in my own situation, because I believe in this true love I speak of.. and as much as the odds seem bigger than I can handle I know God is on my side.. I pray for this person every night. I pray for him to change. I pray for him to see what is so blantantly in front of him. I know I can't change him... I just hope and pray for the best and if this true love of mine wasn't really mine 2 have or God-ordained then I have no choice but to move on.. something we have a hard time doing, b/c of this torch we hold for that person or love burning so deep within.. To my sisters and brothers that believe in this true love keep the hope alive. As the bible say: Now Faith is the substance of things hope for and the evidence of things not seen ( Hebrews 11:1).Your hoping for this even though you may not see it now eventually my friends you will. Don't give up on that true love, and if you thought that person was your true love and it didn't work out at that time maybe the timing was off, maybe you rushed or maybe he/she wasn't that true love you thought was for you? Don't be discouraged you will have your true love one day be patient don't rush. Be still and know that he is God!
ORINGINALLY WRITTEN 25 JUN 06
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